Inflammation Communication and all tied up

.Posting this now instead of Sunday, because i have it in front of me, and my current abilities are just too fragile to be sure i will remember HOW to do it later.

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Tru here. i have inflammation in mouth (canker sores) finger, both legs, and in ear. 
No UTI, but i am tied tighter than a clock, and i expect these have something to do with my emotions that are out-of-control.

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My drive for providing kindness must have driven over to someone else’s house to park,
because i do not FEEL loving or kind. 
When asked to help, my first thought is to throw the item in their face, instead of “helping”.

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i am fed up with words;

words from folks whom i cannot understand (which is almost everyone)
and words that i cannot find, for what i want to say in reply.
NO, do not ask me to make this call, even tho it is something for ME ! 
i am past asking “please” … just DONT ask me to deal with verbal communication! 
dont dont DONT do it !!!

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NO, do not ask me to understand what you are trying to tell me “just one last time”;
i dont understand the sentences.
i dont understand the concept, and then you go trying to explain, so throwing other stuff on top of concept that i already do not understand !  
NO; do not use another illustration and expect me to co-relate two different things;
that requires keeping something in memory in order to compare it ,
… and it just “aint” happenin’ today !

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i am not stupid, but i feel like i must be stupid,
because i cannot understand others,
… and they cannot understand me
(because i cannot talk in a straight line — it goes all the way around Marshall’s barn in order to say the simplest thing). 
i cant do ANYTHING right.

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i love you and even now i want to please you. 
You are hurting and (like You) i want to make it “better”.

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i realize that i need to calm,
but No; i dont need to talk to other people. 
WORDS are emphatically the LAST thing i would like right now.
Since my tremors prevent use of sharp instruments (so i cannot cut kindling into tiny itsy-bitsy pieces) then
today i need to vent my feelings by writing, or maybe slamming several crayons all over a piece of index cardstock.
AFTER self-expression then maybe i can just curl up in a ball with my dog, or play with my “Silk” app and the soft calming music while i doodle.  >> https://truthfulkindness.com/about/life-other/arts-crafts/apps/silk/

If i had any energy at all, i would think about arranging some kind of “full-body punching-bag” like my dad had. 
… just something to PUNCH !!! 
((But unfortunately it would be likely to bounce right back, and knock me flat on my behind.)) LOL

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… However …  Today might be one of those days that YOU (as my care-partner) really NEED words. 
You might really need to be able to talk with someone who has some communication skills and some memory skills;
especially someone who might understand the family dynamics of today.

I’m sorry that i am being such a grump.

i DO love you,
and wish that i could do and be better for YOU. 
… but right now this is the best i can be.

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Next Day: Looking at sink but cannot find my wash cloth … oh look, it is rightt here.  That’s where it belongs, so why couldnt i find it? 
Looking at mug and wanting drink, but cannot remember what i do in order to get it that full.
… ugggh; gonna be a long day.

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LINKS:

Communication Part 1 of 3
by Truthful Kindness (Factors of Environment, Content, and Timing) at https://truthfulkindness.com/2014/12/12/verbal-comprehension-strategies-1/ ;

Christine Thelker re inflammation posted 05Apr2021 at https://chrissysjourney.com/2021/04/05/please-please-just-stop/ .

 

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